MEMORIES

Everything around you holds a memory.

No matter if they are happy ones or sad ones.

Sometimes, these memories are cherished. Sometimes, they are neglected. but who knows which memory means what to different people.

Memories are like oxygen, you need them to stay alive.

The most lonely man can still live on if he have memories to cherish.

Memories are the most expensive treasures, one can get a hold of. They don’t care about status nor gender, they just care about thoughts of people.

Sometimes, these memories make us feel lonely. Sometimes, they heal our loneliness.

We can record everything on our videotape but to reminisce that moment, it needs to be embedded in our memory.

You know, there’s one very peculiar thing about memories, that is,

Different people have different memories of the same time.

That’s because people remember things that they want to reminisce one day.

Always make memories. So that, when you’ll turn old, you’ll have many things to look upon.

SO, STAY BLESSED and KEEP MAKING MEMORIES 🙂

मैं क्यों नही जाने देना चाहती।।

“मेरा हाथ छोड़ दो, मैं जाना चाहता हूँ।” उसने कहा।

“नही, मैं नही छोड़ूंगी।” मैंने कहा।

“क्यों?” उसने पूछा।

“क्यो,” तुम पूछ रहे हो,” क्यो”?

क्योकि यह कोई आदेश नही है जो ‘तुम’ मुझे दे सकतें हो। तुम्हारा हाथ छोड़ना या नही छोड़ना, यह मेरी मर्जी है।

ऐसे कैसे तुम्हारा हाथ यू ही छोड़ दु?

मुझे पता है कि फिलहाल हालात बहुत मुश्किल हो चुके है। एक जगह पर बैठकर आराम करने का भी समय नही बचा है। इन हालातो का सामना करना बहुत मुश्किल है और मुझे यह भी पता है कि तुम मुझे इन मुश्किल हालातो से गुजरते हुए नही देख सकते हो। तुम मुझे दुखः नही पोहोचाना चाहते जो।

पर क्या तूम मेरे लिए, हमेशा मेरे पास नही थे? क्या तुम हर मुश्किल घड़ी मैं मेरे पास नही थे? जब मैं रोती थी, तब क्या तुम मेरे आँसू नही पोछते थे? क्या जब भी रोने के कारण मुझे सास लेने मैं तकलीफ होती थी, क्या तुम मेरी पीठ नही थपथपाते थे?

मैं कैसे उन सभी चीज़ों को भुलाकर तुमसे दूर चली जऊ? और तो और सिर्फ इस लिए की यह हालात सिर्फ तुम्हारी वजह से है?

ऐसे कैसे मैं तुम्हे इस मुश्किल समय में अकेले छोड़ सकती हूँ? ऐसे कैसे मैं तुमपे नज़र नही रख सकती हूं?

और तुम पूछते हो, “क्यों”। इसका जवाब बहुत ही आसान है। ऐसा इसलिए क्योकि मैं तुमसे बहुत प्यार करती हूँ और मैं यूही तुम्हारा हाथ नही छोड़ सकती, मैं तुम्हारे साथ रहना चाहती हूँ , भलेही मैं तुम्हारे जादा काम न आ सकु। मैं तुम्हारे पास ही रहूंगी। हमेशा तुम्हारे साथ।

आखिरकार, प्यार एक गुलाब की तरह होता है। अगर उसमे रंगबिरंगी और प्यारी पंखुड़ीयाँ होती है, तो उसमे काँटेदार और नुकीले काँटे भी तो होते है। पर सिर्फ उन काँटो के कारण हम उस गुलाब के फूल को निहारना बन्द नही करते हैं॥^_^

(Dedicated to मेरे मम्मी और पाप का प्यारा सा बंधन। धन्यवाद, मम्मी और पापा, हर मुश्किल वक़्त मैं एक दूसरे का हाथ पकड़े रहने के लिए। 🙂 )

(credits to the owner of the gif.)

What is TRUE LOVE?

Everyone have there own defination to define TRUE LOVE.

Everyone have their own exceptation from TRUE LOVE.

But what ecxactly is TRUE LOVE?

It’s the love done without any greed.

So, like what? Like, how parents love their children?…….No, that’s not. They also have their greed. They love their children so that, after growing up their children will love them back. It’s like a trade. Human philosophy has became like that. If you love someone dearly, of course, you would want something in return. No matter even if it’s love that you want back. That’s just greed.

How will you know, if it’s true love or not?

Well, it’s simple yet complicated.

If you have true love for someone, you won’t want anything in return.

Reading it is as simple as vocalizing the letters but applying it in life is what makes it complicated.

Like, you’ll love those things that makes them happy.

Like, you’ll hate those things that makes them sad.

Like, you’ll do anything, to make them smile.

But all this at the cost of your greed. It won’t be easy and at sometimes it’ll hurt too. But you have to keep reminding yourself that your love is true. It’ll make things easier, for sure.

Changing one’s mindset is the most difficult task one can opt for.

Like, you don’t love your friend until, all you wanna do is make them happy but instead, if you paste your feelings on their face and force them to feel the same as you, then that’s not love. It’s just greed.

Like, you would let your true love go if, leaving you is what makeing them happy. After all you want them to be happy, right?

What will you gain?

Of course you won’t gain any materialistic thing but if your love is true, then you’ll gain one thing for sure. That is SELF SATISFACTION.

Believe me or not but SELF SATISFACTION IS THE BIGGEST GIFT ANYONE CAN GAIN.

Though, parent love to get love but children love because they want to love. They don’t have their greed. A child’s love for their Mom and Dad is true.

Though, it’s different if you are Faking your love for them to get something😁.

After all, people are like science. There’s always an exception.

My true love is for my Mom. I love to see her happy and I hate to see her sad. I love her very much but sometimes, I also act up in front of her to make her get me something. Yep, that’s love.

What’s your true love? Comment below♡.

What is my worth?

Sometimes I think, I am worthless. I am useless. I live off on dad’s money. I am totally dependent. What am I even gonna do in life? I don’t know. I don’t even have any talent. I just wonder here and there like a hippie.

And even if I am making an effort, what is this effort for?

Sometimes, the answer is more closer than you think. Sometimes, the answer is right beside you.

Then, what is the answer?

The answer is….your family. Your mom, your dad, your brother, your sister. Maybe, you are IMPORTANT to them. No matter how many or how less your friends are, they are always gonna be there for you. Maybe, your presence is what makes them happy!

Maybe, your dad loves it, when he comes back home and you ask him, “dad, how was your day?”

Maybe your mom loves it, when after eating what she cooked,you shout, “mom, it’s delicious!”

Maybe your brother loves it, when you nag saying, ” this T-shirt doesn’t suit you. Get it off!”

Though you may not be playing the lead characters in their stories but without supporting role, no hero gets to his destiny.

Maybe, you are the supporting role, very next to their heart.

You have a worth. You just have to notice it. Even if don’t, just think that your effort is giving someone, a smile.

SEE, YOU ARE OF A GREAT WORTH.

What’s it about?

Don’t you think that sometimes our heart thinks too…..

This blog will keep you company, whenever, you want to.

Though it’ll have most of my point of views by you can relate to the most of it.

This life is a long journey. I mean, of course it’s the longest. Do you do anything that’s longer than living your life?

IT’S A LONG JOURNEY INDEED BUT IT’S WORTH IT♡.